tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post1958194601560043593..comments2023-10-01T07:43:13.216-07:00Comments on bits and peaces: Red on WhiteJustMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02493032821722724778noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-51146765491820310602013-05-28T08:35:16.317-07:002013-05-28T08:35:16.317-07:00This post gave me goosebumps - I am so glad that e...This post gave me goosebumps - I am so glad that everything turned out OK!!! And I wouldn't be surprised if her 2-week abstinence turned into a 7-month one! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-87272033506201036132013-05-14T12:49:56.598-07:002013-05-14T12:49:56.598-07:00Bleeding is scary even when it's brown or pink...Bleeding is scary even when it's brown or pink. When I first got some pink spotting after sex, I went and looked up one of my books, and it said, "About 50% of women who experience bleeding in the first trimester do not suffer a miscarriage." But what I understood was, "MY ODDS OF HAVING A MISCARRIAGE JUST SHOT UP TO 50%???"<br /><br />Glad everything is okay. Proserpinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01905050625403590363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-44001571450124956932013-05-12T09:40:18.077-07:002013-05-12T09:40:18.077-07:00I am so so sorry this happened. But I am so incred...I am so so sorry this happened. But I am so incredibly happy to hear everything is looking fine. Hugs to you. And hoping, praying that everything will continue to go smoothly until your baby is born.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02424374017675047414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-15388096758125056832013-05-07T08:31:51.030-07:002013-05-07T08:31:51.030-07:00Wow, I'm so sorry you had to go through that s...Wow, I'm so sorry you had to go through that scary experience, but so relieved for you that everything seems to be fine and little girl is in there calmly doing her thing! You're so right, until you've been in that situation yourself, you don't have an understanding that it's not just about losing a pregnancy, but about a real little life, your own child who you already love and cherish and have dreams for. People who haven't experienced it just don't get it. Your love for your daughter is so apparent though :)Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14325203869605294768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-14761508214645974802013-05-03T13:11:01.573-07:002013-05-03T13:11:01.573-07:00I can't imagine anything more terrifying! Tha...I can't imagine anything more terrifying! That's why hubby is currently on a starvation (sex) diet. He's always had a crush on Jessica Alba, so I just tell him to go visit his movie star. He and Jessica have had a LOT of alone time lately. ;) I'm so glad everything turned out ok!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-76142006040622036212013-05-03T09:08:26.188-07:002013-05-03T09:08:26.188-07:00Ohhh, wow. This sounds absolutely terrifying. I...Ohhh, wow. This sounds absolutely terrifying. I'm so sorry you guys had to experience those 12 hours. Your description of your new awareness of your love for this particular baby girl (and not just your pregnancy) was nothing short of amazing, my friend. I went from holding my breath to feeling all warm and lovely on the inside. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-11016478439491226532013-05-03T08:15:48.356-07:002013-05-03T08:15:48.356-07:00Yikes how scary! Glad everything is okay.Yikes how scary! Glad everything is okay.Non Sequitur Chicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07268138421234170972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-33258368232008164442013-05-02T12:16:46.149-07:002013-05-02T12:16:46.149-07:00Wow. So glad everything is OK. How scary.Wow. So glad everything is OK. How scary.JenShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00056681492831041470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-61464192617305778952013-05-02T09:41:14.140-07:002013-05-02T09:41:14.140-07:00Holy crap, this is terrifying!! But you put it so ...Holy crap, this is terrifying!! But you put it so absolutely perfect with this: "Sitting in the middle of the night, hoping a piece of toilet paper will hold in our dreams" -- that is just a classic frigging example of what infertility survivors endure, probably way more often than normal pregnant women. I would have been totally hyperventilating and losing my shit, so I admire your attempts to remain calm. Gentle sexing only from now on!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-69666421684808124612013-05-02T09:00:42.686-07:002013-05-02T09:00:42.686-07:00I'm so glad peanut is in there and A-OK! The D...I'm so glad peanut is in there and A-OK! The Dr. is right about the cervix thing; yours must be very vascular.<br />Take care of yourself and baby. Drink lots of water!HiLLjOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18339271743324886097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-91301737622003888252013-05-02T08:47:22.207-07:002013-05-02T08:47:22.207-07:00I can only imagine how very scary this was for you...I can only imagine how very scary this was for you both. I am so happy to hear that all is well. Big hugs!!Janet Off Kilterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18064947474835725800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-12855038918431572162013-05-02T07:12:06.259-07:002013-05-02T07:12:06.259-07:00Oh my gosh! As I read this story I was holding my ...Oh my gosh! As I read this story I was holding my breath. I am so incredibly glad that everything is okay, and it was heartwarming to read that you and hubby are starting to really feel like parents, settling into your Mommy & Daddy roles. What a sweetie sticking her tongue out, I'm sure this is one of many "geez, chill out Mom!" episodes to come! haha<br /><br />I think it's really helpful to read this story as a woman who is not pregant yet. I'm sure these things are very common, and if it ever happens to me I will remember your story and your happy ending.<br /><br />I know you are going to make an amazing Mom to your baby girl, and I am looking forward to following along :)Gypsy Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026496787029080243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-10703615358075571212013-05-02T06:22:37.998-07:002013-05-02T06:22:37.998-07:00I am so glad to hear that all was well at today...I am so glad to hear that all was well at today's ultrasound. Thinking of and praying for all three of you!dspencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03028178955338687090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-28174378848633307422013-05-02T04:37:47.795-07:002013-05-02T04:37:47.795-07:00Oh! Big internet hugs for both the scariness of t...Oh! Big internet hugs for both the scariness of the episode and the happy ending. I've always been SO happy that I didn't have spotting early on -- even though I know how normal and common it is, I would have totally freaked out. <br /><br />I've also been meaning to say 'hi' since you started commenting on my blog! Hi!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-12952244655929876162013-05-02T04:06:14.805-07:002013-05-02T04:06:14.805-07:00Oh my gosh!! I'm so sorry you had to go throug...Oh my gosh!! I'm so sorry you had to go through such a scary experience! You poor thing! I know I would have panicked! I'm so glad baby girl is doing great! I pray that never ever happens to you again! Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-39811445606509418932013-05-01T21:32:10.946-07:002013-05-01T21:32:10.946-07:00Oh my! What a terrible scare. I'm so glad ever...Oh my! What a terrible scare. I'm so glad everything is alright but I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope it's the last time anything like that happens. Esperanzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375150088333673843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-72319489559801313452013-05-01T20:26:40.212-07:002013-05-01T20:26:40.212-07:00So glad everything is ok! I know that must have be...So glad everything is ok! I know that must have been terrifying. Try not to let worry consume you now. Look forward with hope!Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166768638822479118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-914382632005868190.post-86350929547620919522013-05-01T20:20:59.661-07:002013-05-01T20:20:59.661-07:00Ugh I'm sorry, it is the worst feeling ever. T...Ugh I'm sorry, it is the worst feeling ever. That was exactly how my miscarriage started- I suspect I will be too terrified for sex at all in future first trimesters, I didn't realise i'll have to add second to that too! Poor husband...<br /><br />So glad your girl looks good, and you have some reassurance. Rest easy! xLornahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10025158792713376297noreply@blogger.com